Aita for agreeing to divorce my wife when she ‘joked’ about it

Yesterday me and my wife were just chilling and watching tv, my wife all of a sudden said that she wants a divorce and started laughing hysterically, she was quite drunk, she drinks I do not, I was shocked when she suddenly asked me for divorce, I have been with her for past 6 years, all this time we spent together but she never ever asked me something so absurd.

I got angry and said ‘sure, door’s that way, send me papers but make it fair’ she stopped laughing and got sad, I am used to her sarcastic questions about it I would do something like this or that for her or absurdity like if I would jump off the hill for her etc, but I never saw this coming my way.

But she this time got sad and angry and became serious and asked me am I for real, I said sure I am, you want to leave me then leave I can’t stop you or do you want me to physically stop you, she got very angry and started crying and said that I wouldn’t even fight even a little to save our marriage and just agree to divorce without reacting she asked me have I stopped loving her, I told her I love her but if you want to leave me I won’t stop you or beg you

My wife got very angry and slapped my chest and said ‘bad husband’ I tried to stop her and ask her to talk to me but she didn’t listen to me, she’s been ignoring me since yesterday, today I went to talk to her and she said that ‘I need to become a better man and husband and fight for my wife instead of just agreeing to divorce like a heartless pig, and until I work on myself she will not talk to me’ and she’s been ignoring me, she gave me food sat next to me but whenever I tried to talk to her she didn’t reply

I was thinking of apologizing but I also thought that I don’t need to appologise because I didn’t do anything wrong, aita?

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